Flower Meanings: The Language of Flowers
What does each flower symbolize? Which flowers represent love, hope, healing, loss, and good luck? See the Almanac’s complete list of Flower Meanings. Whether you are picking out a flower bouquet for Mother’s Day or a wedding or planting a garden, discover the secret language of flowers!
The History of Flower Meanings
The symbolic language of flowers has been recognized for centuries in many countries throughout Europe and Asia. They even play a large role in William Shakespeare’s works. Mythologies, folklore, sonnets, and plays of the ancient Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, and Chinese are peppered with flower and plant symbolism—and for good reason. Nearly every sentiment imaginable can be expressed with flowers. The orange blossom, for instance, means chastity, purity, and loveliness, while the red chrysanthemum means “I love you.”
Flowery Language of the Victorian Era
Learning the special symbolism of flowers became a popular pastime during the 1800s. Nearly all Victorian homes had, alongside the Bible, guidebooks for deciphering the “language,” although definitions shifted depending on the source.
In the Victorian era, flowers were primarily used to deliver messages that couldn’t be spoken aloud. In a sort of silent dialogue, flowers could be used to answer “yes” or “no” questions. A “yes” answer came in the form of flowers handed over with the right hand; if the left hand was used, the answer was “no.”
Plants could also express aversive feelings, such as the “conceit” of pomegranate or the “bitterness” of aloe. Similarly, if given a rose declaring “devotion” or an apple blossom showing “preference,” one might return to the suitor a yellow carnation to express “disdain.”
How flowers were presented and in what condition were important. If the flowers were given upside down, then the idea being conveyed was the opposite of what was traditionally meant. How the ribbon was tied said something, too: Tied to the left, the flowers’ symbolism applied to the giver, whereas tied to the right, the sentiment was in reference to the recipient. And, of course, a wilted bouquet delivered an obvious message!
More examples of plants and their associated human qualities during the Victorian era include bluebells and kindness, peonies and bashfulness, rosemary and remembrance, and tulips and passion. The meanings and traditions associated with flowers have certainly changed over time, and different cultures assign varying ideas to the same species, but the fascination with “perfumed words” persists just the same.
What Does Each Flower Symbolize?
See our list below for symbolic meanings of herbs, flowers, and other plants. (Please note: There are many meanings for flowers over the centuries; our chart below reflects mainly Victorian symbolism.)
Click on linked plant names for a photo and growing guide.
Symbolic Meanings of Herbs, Flowers and Other Plants | |
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Abatina | Fickleness |
Acanthus | The fine art, Artifice |
Aloe | Affection, also Grief |
Amaryllis | Pride |
Anemone | Forsaken |
Angelica | Inspiration |
Apple blossom | Preference |
Arborvitae | Unchanging friendship |
Aster | Symbol of Love, Daintiness |
Bachelor’s button | Single blessedness |
Basil | Good wishes |
Bay tree | Glory |
Begonia | Beware |
Belledonna | Silence |
Bittersweet | Truth |
Black-eyed Susan | Justice |
Bluebell | Humility |
Borage | Bluntness, Directness |
Butterfly weed | Let me go |
Camellia, pink | Longing For You |
Camellia, red | You’re a Flame in My Heart |
Camellia, white | You’re Adorable |
Candytuft | Indifference |
Carnation | Fascination, Women Love |
– Red carnation | Alas for my poor heart, my heart aches |
– White carnation | Innocence, Pure love, Women’s good luck gift |
– Pink carnation | I’ll never forget you |
– Striped | Refusal |
– Yellow carnation | Disdain, Disappointment, Rejection |
Chamomile | Patience in adversity |
Chives | Usefulness |
Chrysanthemum, red | I love you |
Chrysanthemum, yellow | Slighted love |
Chrysanthemum, white | Truth |
Clematis | Mental beauty |
Clematis, evergreen | Poverty |
Clover, white | Think of me |
Columbine | Foolishness, folly |
Columbine, purple | Resolution |
Columbine, red | Anxious, Trembling |
Coreopsis | Always cheerful |
Coriander | Hidden worth/merit |
Crab blossom | Ill nature |
Crocus, spring | Cheerfulness, Youthful gladness |
Cyclamen | Resignation, Diffidence, Goodbye |
Daffodil | Regard, Unequalled Love |
Dahlia, single | Good taste |
Daisy | Innocence, Loyal love, I’ll never tell |
Dill | Powerful against evil |
Edelweiss | Courage, devotion |
Fennel | Flattery |
Fern | Magic, Fascination, Secret bonds of love |
Forget-me-not | True love memories, Do not forget me |
Gardenia | You’re lovely, Secret love |
Geranium | Folly, Stupidity |
Gladiolus | Flower of the Gladiators, Integrity, Strength, Victory |
Goldenrod | Encouragement, Good fortune |
Heliotrope | Eternal love, Devotion |
Hibiscus | Delicate beauty |
Holly | Defense, Domestic happiness |
Hollyhock | Ambition |
Honeysuckle | Bonds of love |
Hyacinth | Sport, Game, Play |
– Blue Hyacinth | Constancy |
– Purple Hyacinth | Sorrow |
– Yellow Hyacinth | Jealousy |
– White Hyacinth | Loveliness, Prayers for someone |
Hydrangea | Gratitude for being understood; Frigidity and heartlessness |
Hyssop | Sacrifice, Cleanliness |
Iris | Faith, trust, Wisdom, Hope, Valor |
Ivy | Affection, Friendship, Fidelity |
Jasmine, white | Sweet love, Amiability |
Jasmine, yellow | Grace; Elegance |
Lady’s Slipper | Capricious beauty |
Larkspur | Open heart, levity, lightness, fickleness (pink or simple varieties). |
Lavender | Distrust |
Lemon balm | Sympathy |
Lilac | Joy of youth |
Lily (white) | Virgin, Purity, Heavenly |
Lily (yellow) | Happy, Gay, Walking on air |
Lily (orange) | Hatred |
Lily, calla | Beauty |
Lily, day | Chinese emblem for mother |
Lily, tiger | Wealth, Pride |
Lily-of-the-valley | Sweetness, Tears of the Virgin Mary, Humility |
Lotus Flower | Purity, Enlightenment, Self-regeneration, and Rebirth |
Magnolia | Nobility, Love of nature |
Marigold | Grief, jealousy |
Marjoram | Joy and happiness |
Mint | Virtue |
Morning glory | Affection |
Myrtle | Good luck, love in a marriage |
Nasturtium | Patriotism, Conquest, Victory in Battle |
Oak | Strength |
Oregano | Substance |
Pansy | Thoughts |
Parsley | Festivity |
Peony | Bashful, Happy Life or Shame |
Pine | Humility, Piety |
Poppy | Consolation |
Rhododendron | Danger, beware |
Rose, red | Love, I love you |
Rose, dark crimson | Mourning |
Rose, pink | Happiness |
Rose, white | Innocence, Heavenly, I’m worthy of you |
Rose, yellow | Jealousy, Decrease of love, Infidelity |
Rosemary | Remembrance |
Rue | Grace, clear vision |
Sage | Wisdom, immortality |
Salvia, blue | I think of you |
Salvia, red | Forever mine |
Savory | Spice, interest |
Snapdragon | Deception, Graciousness |
Sorrel | Affection |
Southernwood | Constancy, jest |
Spearmint | Warmth of sentiment |
Speedwell | Feminine fidelity |
Sunflower, dwarf | Adoration |
Sunflower, tall | Haughtiness |
Sweet pea | Blissful pleasures, Good-bye, Thank you for a lovely time |
Sweet William | Gallantry |
Sweet woodruff | Humility |
Tansy | Hostile thoughts, declaring war |
Tarragon | Lasting interest |
Thyme | Courage, strength |
Tulip, red | Passion, declaration of love |
Tulip, yellow | Sunshine in your smile |
Valerian | Readiness |
Violet | Watchfullness, Modesty, Faithfulness |
Willow | Sadness |
Yarrow | Everlasting love |
Zinnia | Thoughts of absent friends, lasting affection |
Flower Meanings by Color
Flowers provided an incredibly nuanced form of communication. Some plants, including roses, poppies, and lilies, could express a wide range of emotions based on their color alone.
Take, for instance, all of the different meanings attributed to variously colored carnations: Pink meant “I’ll never forget you”; red said “my heart aches for you”; purple conveyed capriciousness; white was for the “the sweet and lovely”; and yellow expressed romantic rejection.
Likewise, a white violet meant “innocence,” while a purple violet said that the bouquet giver’s “thoughts were occupied with love.” A red rose was used to openly express feelings of love, while a red tulip was a confession of love. The calla lily was interpreted to mean “magnificent beauty,” and a clover said “think of me.”
Unsurprisingly, the color of the rose plays a huge role. Red roses symbolize love and desire, but roses come in a variety of colors and each has their own meaning.
- White rose: purity, innocence, reverence, a new beginning, a fresh start.
- Red rose: love, I love you
- Deep, dark crimson rose: mourning
- Pink rose: grace, happiness, gentleness
- Yellow rose: jealousy, infidelity
- Orange rose: desire and enthusiasm
- Lavender rose: love at first sight
- Coral rose: friendship, modesty, sympathetic
source : almanac.com